Thoughtfully, several of my friends coming to the party offered to postpone to another night when I was feeling better but I thought the best thing to do was to go on with the party. Jakey, always one for a party (i.e. eating), would have wanted it that way!
I had a terrible time trying to find a place to go. My initial thought was to organize a gourmet dinner at The Urban Element or Table 40. Turns out October is an extremely busy month for birthdays and weddings. I could not find a date that worked for me. And while I still love this idea and might pursue it for a future birthday, it can be quite expensive. My next idea was just to plan a dinner for a bunch of us ... again a challenge since the places I wanted to go to either do not take reservations on Saturday night (even for a group of 20 people) or they were all booked up for large groups. I finally managed to confirm at Brasseurs du Temps (BDT) on the Gatineau side for a group of 15. That was the most they could accommodate even though I was planning about two weeks in advance!
As you know, if you've read my previous posts I have had both good and mediocre experiences at BDT. The place is great, the beer is awesome, but there have been some misses on the food and service. Generally I thought it was a good choice with a good variety of food and the brewery right on site, a bit unfortunate about having to go over to the Quebec side but, really ... at this point I had no choice if I wanted to have a birthday par-tay!
We had a great location right in the centre of the main room - almost with a view of the beer vats. There were no other tables close to us which was nice. I won't go into all the food -- frankly I'm not even sure what I had ... I think I had ribs but I'm not positive. I know several of us started with the goat cheese salad which was really really good -- and huge. It is a dinner sized salad with ... guess what? poached pears. As I mentioned in my post about Burnt Butter, this fall I was inundated with poached pears everywhere. The goat cheese salad also led to a heated discussion between Jack and I ... disagreeing whether there was horseradish in the dressing.
There was. I won.
I don't know for sure what everyone ordered. I know that the three women sitting closest to me (Stacey, FunBobby and Caitlyn I'm looking at you) ordered the mussels. I gave Caitlyn a pass on my ultimatum that that she not order mussels anymore when we go out only because there were other people having them too. Everyone who had the mussels said they were awesome.
Emma started with the bison tartare. She loved it ... and to her great surprise I tried it. She never expected me to try it since it grosses me out everytime she tells me about the fab-u-lus steak tartare she gets at a resto that she goes to in London. I can assure you ... the bison tartare was excellent. You just have to be able to get over the fact that you are eating raw meat ... it's worth trying. Obviously, this was before Emma went vegan!
We had a great time. I'm glad that I had a designated-driver so I was able to sample all the beers. And some bosoms too ... FunBobby nestled me in her ample boobies.
Special birthday treat for me!
and to think I insisted I didn't want any birthday presents ...!
It was lots of laughs and fun all around. When you get Chicklit laughing this much you know it's gotta be a good time, and/or she she's had much more booze than usual!
Stacey got a little treat from Emma too ... at the end of the night with a little whipped cream delight.
mmmmm whipped cream and wine
We really had a great time at the restaurant. The guys were good enough to head out and let me and my girls finish off the night together on our own. Stacey got a gorgeous set of beer glasses and then we headed back to my place for another little cocktail. We had tossed around the idea of heading of to a Gatineau club but we didn't think any of us had enough of a fake tan and bleached blond hairs to fit in. And, it really had been a very long day for me and I appreciated soooooo much all my dear friends hanging out with me to celebrate my birthday and to comfort me in such a difficult time. Love you all.